I used to find it sad when my mother and father were the age I am now and I asked them what they would like for Christmas and they said ‘Nothing, thank you. There’s nothing I need.’
But this week when my daughter asked what I would like this year my mind was blank. What did I want? The things I want are unattainable -
A one state solution to the Palestine-Israel conflict.
Any kind of solution to the conflict.
A UK government with integrity that cares about ordinary people.
Politicians the world over who act as though there is ACTUALLY a climate crisis.
Enough of this.
After some thought I told her that what I’d like was an outing of some kind with her. It could be as simple as a walk with a cuppa and a scone at the end. Spending time with my adult children individually has become something rare because they are all so busy.
I saw a tweet from @VeryBritishProblems on the medium-formerly-known-as-Twitter this week that I really liked. I liked it because it was about tea (the drink) but I liked it for a larger meaning - because it celebrated the value of the ordinary.
The best types of tea:
-The tea brought to you in bed on a Sunday morning
-The tea that comforts you after bad news, gives you the energy to carry on
-The leaning on the worktop after cleaning the kitchen tea (usually held in two hands)
-The “struggle to take a glove off as someone hands it to you” gardening break tea
-The tea you almost forget to drink when you’re in a rush but you remember it just in time
-The hotel room tea
-The tea with a cooked breakfast
-The recovering in hospital tea
-The tea on the freezing sidelines of a Sunday League football match
-The back at the desk after a long meeting tea
-The first tea of the day
-The first tea of the new year
-The tea you take to bed
-The tea while slapping a new coat of paint on the walls
-The tea in the shed
-The tea while staring out the window on a rainy Saturday afternoon
-The tea you celebrate with (and calm down with) when you’ve just received very good news
-The tea you didn’t expect to be offered -The tea in a museum cafe -The free tea
-The tea after an argument
-The tea that gives you an excuse to open the good biscuits -The tea with a view
-The tea with buttered toast
-The “afternoon tea” with lots of little sandwiches and cakes
-The tea in a tent while camping
-The tea from a flask on an Autumn hike
-The tea while reading a book in an armchair on a rare day off with not a care in the world
-The tea after a hard day at work
-The tea after getting in from a run / bike ride
-The first tea back in your home after a holiday -
-The picnic tea
-The ‘break up a long car journey’ tea
-The tea you make for someone and they say it’s a really lovely cup of tea, one of the best teas they’ve ever had
-The tea made by your Mum/Dad
Days
What are days
for?
Days are where
we live.
They come, they
wake us
Time and time
over.
They are to be
happy in:
Where can we
live but days?
Ah, solving
that question
Brings the
priest and the doctor
In their long
coats
Running over the
fields.
Philip Larkin
p.s. I may leave Twitter (X) in the future, so you won’t see me posting a link to my blog posts there. If you google me when you want to check in, you can find a link to the blog and then, once on the blog, if you click on the blog title it will show you the latest post.
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